Coined by urban sociologist Ray Oldenburg in the 1980’s, a ‘Third Space’ refers to a social surrounding that isn’t home or work where people can relax, socialise and feel that they belong. It’s a place where a community comes together and people feel at home, without actually being in their home. Think libraries, cafes, bookshops – any location where casual interaction and connection can take place. However, with the closure of many public spots and the rise of the internet, some argue that the third space has moved online for many – now known as the ‘Virtual Third Space.’ But, where are the online spaces where people spend time side-by-side? And is it always a good thing?
Where are the online third spaces?
A virtual third space can be anywhere online. One example is online forums where users spend hours casually conversing with each other on a series of topics. Or, perhaps the most popular example of a third space would be online gaming. Whether meeting for a game of Among Us, Animal Crossing or playing a traditionally in-person game like bingo online for real money at Paddy Power, gaming is a form of entertainment that’s skyrocketed in popularity over the last few years and which often doubles as a third space. Also think online book clubs, zoom quizzes or even the comment section of Youtube videos. The third spaces are endless.
What are the benefits?
But, what’s the point? Well, according to Ray Oldenburg, third spaces are areas where people exchange ideas, have fun and cultivate relationships which ultimately leads to more connection in our lives. And though physical third places are still really important to cultivate, it seems that virtual third places have their unique benefits. According to Forbes magazine, virtual third spaces are deeply accessible, meaning that homebodies, introverts or those unable to travel are still able to connect with others even if they might avoid traditional third spaces. Plus, the universal nature of the internet means that users can connect with those who they share common interests with – think online fan forums – when these people might not live in their local area.
What’s the future?
So, virtual spaces should not be seen in competition with physical spaces, but rather, they expand the ways in which we can connect with strangers. And it looks like that expansion is only going to continue in the form of things like online fashion – exemplified by H&M’s 2022 full online clothing collection – alongside online gym classes, workshops and even virtual religious services. Whether looking to play a game, connect with strangers or feed your hobbies, virtual third spaces are a really positive thing. We just have to remember to find that healthy balance between our online and physical world!
Final thoughts
Oldenberg famously described third spaces as “homes away from homes where people can relate.” So, where is your place that you go to relate? And what are the activities which you connect over? These are the questions you need to ask to identify your own third space.
