Being attractive is about so much more than how you actually look. The truth of the matter is that you need to do more than BE attractive – you need to FEEL attractive. But let’s be real: that doesn’t come easy to everyone. There are days when feeling attractive is anything but natural – whether it’s because you didn’t sleep last night, didn’t get that promotion despite your best efforts, or just woke up on the wrong side of the bed; it’s important to keep in mind a few ways to make yourself feel more attractive and, in turn, look more attractive.
Build Yourself Up
If you exude confidence, people will want to be around you – build yourself up, and form yourself into someone that both you and others can love. Please also consider that you don’t actually have to hate yourself to constantly tear yourself down, some people think self deprecation is funny. Instead, make it a habit to think positive thoughts about yourself and to portray yourself as a confident person as you speak with others.
Believe in Yourself
Believe that if you think you’re not good enough, funny enough, lovable enough… people will pick up on that behavioral slump and won’t be itching to be around you. On the flip side, ego aside, if you believe you are the bee’s knees, other people probably will, too.
Stand Up Straight
Body language is everything! Slouching conveys insecurity and a lack of confidence. On the contrary, standing up straight – chest out, shoulder’s back – is an incredibly tangible way to feel and express confidence to others.
Take Care of Yourself
Neglecting self-care will not only affect your physical appearance, it’ll also affect how you feel. You’d be surprised the difference a bubble bath, shaved legs, and an outfit you love makes for your confidence! Take the time to take care of yourself and you’ll definitely attract others.
Own Your Unique Image
In a world that revolves around social media, comparison is all too easy to resort to. Any person who’s ever caught themselves comparing their lives to another knows the insecurity this can breed. Insecurity is one thing that will cause you to feel less attractive, especially as it pertains to physical beauty. Do yourself a favor- fight the urge to compare yourself to others, and own your own uniquely beautiful image.
Wear Comfortable Clothes
Trust us when we say if you feel uncomfortable, you likely look uncomfortable. Wearing clothes that aren’t comfortable will always leave you feeling awkward and uneasy, and that conveys to others relatively easily. There are too many wardrobe choices for you to wear something you feel uncomfortable in, something that might not be “you”.
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