Seduction is all about the way you feel. Whether it is sexy, beautiful, playful, alluring, mysterious or all of the above, seduction begins in the mind and is enhanced by the way we look. Our appearance makes us more confident and therefore sexier. And remember, an attractive, sexy woman is one of the most powerful creatures on the planet. Here are some simple tips on how to become the most beautiful seductress any man has ever laid eyes on!
1. It’s All About the Eyes
Seduction usually begins in the eyes. It is a quick look, a gaze or a stare, that attracts someone to you.
And did you know that large eyes, lips and bosom are signs of youth and fertility? So play up your eyes with a smoky look by using brown eye shadows, liner, mascara and a full set of lashes! We recommend KAT lash.
2. Pouty Lips
Remember Brigitte Bardot in “And God Created Woman”? Her pouty lips sent many men clamoring for her affection. Use a peach colored, matte lip color with a nude lip liner to achieve this beauty standard.
Make your lips looks full and plump. Combine this with a smoky eye and you will be irresistible!
3. Enhance Your Cleavage
Enhance, but don’t overdo your cleavage. Showing less is actually more. A subtle show of cleavage is more beautiful and less cheap looking. Try layering a little camisole underneath a long sleeved top for a sophisticated, yet sexy look. If you are not naturally endowed, try a push up bra. If you are more naturally full, the less you need to push up and a traditional support bra is sufficient. And adding shimmer cream in your cleavage is oh so enticing!
4. Big, Sexy Hair
Everyone loves big, sexy hair, and if you’ve got it, flaunt it. Hair has been used in seduction for centuries from the Veronica Lake’s peek-a-boo look to Lady Godiva’s long golden locks, remember hair is your greatest accessory. Extensions are a great way to boost your own look and every girl should own at least one set of high quality hair extensions. We recommend Cashmere Hair!
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5. Red is the Color of Desire
Did you know that in a recent study, the color most closely related to desire is red. When women wore red, men viewed them as most sexually desirable. So don’t be afraid to wear a vermillion red dress or sophisticated red lipstick on a date tonight. Red is bold and will get you the attention you deserve!
6. The Seduction of Scent
Did you know that fragrance heightens a man’s sexuality? And that scent increases a man’s magnetism towards a woman? Also, a recent study showed that women who wore the scents of grapefruit and strawberry were perceived as 5 years younger by men! So don’t forget to spritz on your favorite perfume before meeting your man. Simple scents are most identifiable by men such as vanilla, lavender or rose.
We recommend Wildfox’s new Eau de Parfum that is a bouquet of warm honey and musk!
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7. The Higher the Heels the Better
Yes, everyone knows that high heels can be a pain sometimes and are uncomfortable to walk in, especially all night long. However, studies show that heels make a woman more appealing to a man. Why? They change the way you walk and they also change your posture. Wearing heels makes the breasts jut forward, the buttocks more round and the hips sway. You also look taller and thinner, so what’s not to like? Don’t forget your heels on your special night of seduction!
8. Healthy Hair is Shiny Hair
A large part of attraction is looking at a potential mate and sizing up his or her health and vitality.
We may not know it, but subconsciously we are all doing this when we look at someone and judge. Healthy hair is shiny hair. And shiny hair is attractive. So, seduce him with hair that is glossy and healthy-looking. Don’t forget to deep condition the night before. And apply a laminate to make hair it’s shiniest! You’ll radiate and glow and he’ll be absolutely mesmerized!
8. Props are Good
Wear a simple prop that you use to flirt with. This can be a hat, sunglasses or unique necklace, he’ll remember you by your sense of individuality and style. And what is more exciting to him than you hiding behind a 70’s wide brim hat or oversized, dark sunglasses. So mysterious and seductive!
9. Feminine, not Masculine
No matter how in style oversized jeans and sweats are, never underestimate the power of a feminine dress. Men don’t want you to look like them. Rather, they are attracted to lace and romantic styles that are timeless. Sophisticated dresses are fun and flirty. Remember, think romance, femininity and the anticipation of what’s next!
10. Wear Your Hair Down
In addition to having big, sexy hair, a recent poll showed that men overwhelmingly preferred women with long hair that is worn down, not up. So, let it all hang loose and think Raquel Welch in “One Million Years BC”. Hair that is beachy and natural is attractive to men so don’t worry about having to have “perfect” hair. Rather, let it loose and let it be sexy!
