Do YOU want to talk dirty to your man? Here’s how!
At some point, we’ve all probably been asked to talk dirty to our partners. Initially, this might seem a bit embarrassing or silly. You might even feel a bit awkward in not knowing exactly what to say or do. This might make you feel like every word you say is up for criticism or critique.
But know that talking dirty is nothing more than another way to play with your partner. It might enhance your sexual experience and make it more creative and fun. And really, when you get down to it, it is all about having fun. Talking dirty might not be an element that you add in every, single time you have sex, but it might be fun on occasion. Jayne Mansfield even said she engaged in a little “ballsy talk” every once in a while.
So, if you are new to dirty talk, what exactly do you say? How do you say it? And how far should you take it? It is important to ask your partner what type of dirty talk they are interested in, and what is considered “too far” or not a turn on. Let them tell you what their fantasies are and what excites them. Things that you might think may be a turn on for them, may not be in reality. So, it is important to listen to your partners likes and dislikes beforehand.
It is also good to use descriptive words. Just like a writer painting a mental picture with words written in the pages of a book, you should also use words to describe actions and feelings. Descriptive words such as “delicious”, “hot”, and “juicy” work well. Don’t be afraid to think outside of the box and to just got for it!
Also, talk about your senses. Talk about how your partner smells, tastes and feels. Tell them this brings you pleasure and describe their bodies in great length. This also feeds their ego and will make them feel great!
Be certain if you use profanity such as “fucking”, “sucking” and “whore” that this is not a turn off to your partner. Once again, these may seem like logical words to use for dirty talk, but it might not be for everyone. As always, communication is key.
If you are embarrassed to start this type of communication, why not try texting it first? This might get you used to the concept of dirty talk without having to say it out loud. Then after you are comfortable, you can ease your way into dirty talk in the bedroom! If you have a loving relationship with your partner, this is just another fun way to express it to them!
So, what are you waiting for? How about some dirty talk tonight?