Love -something everyone has desired at some point in their life. But the thing is, for most people, love doesn’t just happen. It has to be willed into existence. We’ve all heard that it’s gonna happen when it’s gonna happen, but that doesn’t mean you can sit back and wait for the love of your life to burst through your doors!
Are you tired of dating people who don’t share your vision of the future? Do you get into relationships just because you’re afraid of being alone? Are you always chasing after unavailable people? If you’re finally ready to pursue a serious relationship with someone you genuinely connect with, here’s how you can manifest that kind of love.
Love Yourself First
How can you expect someone else to love you if you don’t love yourself? Having a healthy relationship with yourself is really important. People, especially women, tend to look in the mirror and point out everything they dislike about themselves. You need to stop doing that! And remember no one is perfect, so how can you hold yourself up to such impossible standards? Instead, start your day with positive affirmations and show yourself the same kindness you would show a good friend.
Understand What You Want
Do most of your romantic ventures end because you wanted different things? You should understand what you want and perhaps make a list. Put down qualities that actually matter, like strong family values or a sense of adventure. Sure, desiring a beautiful partner is normal, but beauty isn’t enough to sustain a healthy relationship in the long scheme of things.
Appreciate Your Existing Relationships
Romantic love isn’t the only kind of love that matters. Just because you’re single, it doesn’t mean you can disparage platonic and familial relationships. Your family and friends love and support you, and you should appreciate that.
Have Realistic Expectations
Rom-coms are an excellent way to entertain yourself, but that where their purpose ends. Don’t use the unrealistic projection of love imposed by popular culture to manifest your own love life. It’s highly unlikely that someone will stand outside your window with a boombox to win you over!
Know Your Self-Worth
There is a difference between having realistic expectations and settling. You deserve a happy and supportive relationship. So, don’t accept anything less than that.
Put Yourself Out There
Just wanting love is not enough, you have actually to go out and seek it. So start putting yourself out there. Get to know new people and go on dates. Even if you don’t end up connecting, it will at least make what you want clearer.
Know When to Walk Away
Just because you’re willing to put yourself out there, doesn’t mean you have to continue dating incompatible suitors. Know when something is not working and walk away.
Talk to a Psychic
Sometimes it’s difficult to analyze your own love life objectively. You can ask psychic specific questions and doubts you have. With their unbiased guidance, you can lead yourself to a successful relationship. And don’t worry, you don’t have to visit a shady parlor to get a reading. Online psychic readings are just as reliable.
Let Your Friends and Family Know
Once you’re sure of your intentions to find love, let your family and friends know. And who knows, they might introduce you to someone who’s right for you!
Nothing good happens overnight. You need to keep believing in the universe to do its thing! Everything will align like it’s supposed to.
There’s no set number for days or months for manifesting love, you just have to trust the process. There’s a highly compatible person for your put there, don’t settle for anything less!